Your current support network is likely your primary go-to for “coach-like” conversations and you should leverage this to the fullest, but you should also be mindful of the following:
- Your family, friends and co-workers know you on a personal level and may already be familiar with your current environment to a certain extent (your lifestyle, your work, your goals, the people in your life, etc..). Given this fact, how unbiased will their perspective be?
- How “coach-like” are your conversations with your current support network? Are they giving you advice or are they helping you discover what you want? Did you even ask for their advice?
- How comfortable do you feel truly sharing what’s on your mind?
Here are 10 reasons to consider working with a professional coach:
- Coaches create a space of trust and safety for you to feel comfortable sharing.
- You set the agenda and the goalpost for the outcome of the coaching conversation.
- You have some desired state which you want to get to. This can be improvement in a certain area: career, personal goals, or simply to obtain perspective or heightened awareness about a situation.
- The coach facilitates the conversation leveraging a framework to get you to your desired state.
- Professional coaches will primarily facilitate your learning and growth through coaching conversations that help you create awareness and insights.
- Coaches can also offer you advice but should always ask you first if you want the advice before sharing it.
- Coaches are passionate about helping you feel more capable of achieving your goals and are invested in your best interests.
- You may benefit from having a conversation with a coach (someone outside your immediate support network) to get a different perspective.
- Professional coaches maintain confidentiality of their clients.
- You are in control. The coach is simply a partner in your journey.
Coaching conversations do not happen without the acknowledgement and awareness of the person being coached that they are engaging into a coaching conversation.